How long can a “need” relationship work?
I think that your instincts are probably right, and he is doing the “fade out” breakup with you (meaning he is slowly disappearing because he fears doing it face to face). The more you try to get back closer to him, the more you talk to him about this, the more he’ll pull away. So, as hard as it may seem, I would do the opposite. I would let him be. I would take some space away from him. Even if he doesn’t come to realize that he doesn’t want to lose you (which he may), it’s the smarter thing to do. I hope this helps, Lisa
It seems to me that your relationship can go to another level only if you separately work on your own issues first
Hiya, well where to start… Well this about me and my boyfriend ish… We’re basically just friends spiritual singles hesap silme with benefits… .. We have given each other permission to date others but we kinda both don’t wanna share. Well my problem is that I want more… I want to be with him fully and he doesn’t. I say “I love you” and he will rarely say I love you back but if he does it’s like it’s not the same love that I feel. I know I love him more than he loves me. We’re both 24 and were great for each other… He helps cheer me up and makes me feel happy, which if you knew me isn’t an easy task, I suffer from severe depression and other stuff but I won’t get into all that.