First off, I want to do a little introduction and say a few things about myself. I’ve been married for 16 years to a wonderful woman whom I love very much. We have two kids and I love spending time with them. My wife has a regular 9 to 5 office job and I have a job that requires me to work long hours, but that pays me very well. Having said that, I have felt like something was missing for a long time. My wife had lost a lot of her sex drive after we had the kids and I found the lack of sexual attention was driving me to lust after women in my life who I shouldn’t be: my assistant, my sister-in-law, several of my friends’ wives…